A Dom ignoring a safeword is never okay. There is never a good reason for it. There is never a decent excuse.
A safeword is put in place to ensure the safety and comfort level of the bottom. If that is being ignored, something is wrong. If the Top does not consider that safeword the end-all,…
I also want to add that in the BDSM community there is a huge debate about this my personal thoughts are that in the beginning there should always be a safe word and if your Dom does not like it or will not allow you to use it then he is no MAN let alone a DOM!!!
If later on down the line you both choose that a safe word is not needed then that is your choice personally I like to have a safe word but I usually never have to use it with the right partner but it is good practice to have it if you are trying new play for you and your partner. For safety reasons and also for your Dom they may be able to read your body well but in a new kind of kink you both don’t know how you will react!!
Just some food for thought !
Safe words are your friends, you guys.